How to take a break

Have you ever taken a break at work and realized that you’re not actually enjoying yourself? You might be surfing the web or checking your email, but really you’re just looking around for something interesting.

The Problem: When your break is over, you don’t feel refreshed.

The Secret: A break isn’t “not working” for awhile, it’s letting go of work. Ideally you want forget about work completely, but still remember to come back.  Tricky.

The Solution: Use a timer to keep track of time. A portable one is ideal because you can take it with you when you stand up and walk out of your office!  That’s right. No more breaks sitting in front of your computer.

How It Works: You can’t relax or have fun when you’re watching the clock. In fact, we often associate fun with “losing track of time.”

Let the timer worry about time, you go out and have some fun.

Break Ideas:

Walk once around the block.
Do 10 pushups.
Take a shower.
Put on some music. Dance. Sing.
Go outside and take a few deep breaths.
Take a 5 minute mini-nap.
Play a video game (off the computer.)
Go find your dog or cat. Pet it.
Meditate. Be the rock.
Drink a tall glass of water.
Refill your coffee or tea, if that’s your style.
Play with your kids.
Attack a punching bag. Hiyyyya!
Do some simple exercises.
Drink some fresh juice.
Go for a bike ride.
Make yourself a smoothie.
Do some yoga.
Read a book.
Daydream…

Perspective on life…

How to let go of work and fully relax

The Problem: You never relax fully if work is always on your mind.

The Solution: Separate work from the rest of your life by choosing a period of time and declaring, “No work allowed!”  A great place to start is not checking your work email when you’re not at work.

If an entire evening or weekend is too much, start small. For example, you might decide that you won’t touch work between 7pm and 8pm. (You can always expand your time off when the world doesn’t end.)
The Secret: Turn off work physically. Shut down your computer, leave your cellphone in a drawer and close the door to your office. This sends a signal to you and everyone else that you’ve checked out of work.

Take a deep breath, lower your shoulders, smile and go have fun.

Personally I leave my laptop and cell phone upstairs when I come down after work. By making it harder to sneak a peek at my inbox, I’m thinking about work less and I’m more relaxed. This little tip has made me (and my family!) happier, so I hope you’ll try it.